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zambonidriver
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Post by zambonidriver » Thu Feb 04, 2016 4:36 am

wolfman wrote:zambonidriver wrote:
I hate to write this but You need to have a little documentation on the incident from the Bantam A scrimmage from last night. 1/24/2016. My daughter is the goalie for the Bantam A team. She was subject to some pretty horrible comments from a couple players on your team. She was called transgender, Lesbian and a dyke from a player on your team. I have reached out to your coach and he has been wonderful and supportive. We debated long and hard about our daughter playing boys hockey this year and for the most part she has had a wonderful experience. Being a girl on the boys side she has had to deal with the normal issues of the boys testing her and she has handled that just fine. The ages from 12-16 are the hardest for a girl with regards to how they view themselves. So the comments yesterday from the player/players were totally unacceptable and illegal. When I talked to your coach last night he agreed with me. You have hired the right guy to be your head coach. This is a very serious matter and it needs to be addressed association wide. We took the night last night to clam down and process what had happened so we would not overreact. Here is what we need to have happen on your end. The player who made the comments needs to be suspended for the rest of the year and needs to write an apology letter to our daughter. This needs to be done by Friday or we will pursue legal action both criminal and civil. If the above action is taken then nothing else will be pursued. As a teacher and coach I am sorry that this has happened. I also understand that things like this are tough to police and the behavior probably starts at home. Please Keep me posted on your steps to rectify this situation moving forward


Zambonidriver must have been served by the parents of the kids he teaches everyday. Im told the parents wanted a written apology from Zam by noon Friday for all the hours he stared at his computer instead of teaching his class. The parents were prepared to bring criminal and civil legal action against him and it does not look good. These parents want Zam suspended from teaching without pay for the rest of the year and will stop at nothing till justice is served.
I expected this from you you know apples and Oranges

old goalie85
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Post by old goalie85 » Sun May 15, 2016 2:56 am

Boni-So is she playing Bantam this year, or high school. Top BAA goalie is going to Hill, She may end up playing boys varsity two to three years down the road.

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Post by Mavs » Sun May 15, 2016 2:53 pm

nu2hockey wrote:Boys calling a girl names!!!
Litigation?
Elliot will see to it?

What a bunch of baloney!

The girl has heard worse at school, I guarantee it...

z-drvr your daughter wasn't harmed , YOU do more harm to her when you're screaming at her during her goalie practice ..

p.s, three names (Bailey, Frank, and Meyers) pushed you to FL, get ready for a 4th, looking at FL for next year..

see ya
That is the 2nd time we have had someone cryptically say another goalie is moving to FL. Who is it?

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Post by wolfman » Wed May 18, 2016 9:16 am

Scramble mode. Zam is putting together his team of lawyers incase his daughter ends up playing on the boys team. Zam is trying to figure out what private school to enroll his daughter in. Zam is working the girls HS coach over to make sure his daughter is number 1 on depth chart. Zam is not worried about winter hockey and teaching his class and never looks at the Forum board. That last one is not true :lol:

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Post by zambonidriver » Wed May 18, 2016 9:36 am

wolfman wrote:Scramble mode. Zam is putting together his team of lawyers incase his daughter ends up playing on the boys team. Zam is trying to figure out what private school to enroll his daughter in. Zam is working the girls HS coach over to make sure his daughter is number 1 on depth chart. Zam is not worried about winter hockey and teaching his class and never looks at the Forum board. That last one is not true :lol:
Wierdo Wolfy,
Not to worried about any of this. Nice try though =D> Make fun of what you want but there should be no tolerance regarding sexual Harrassment ever!!!!
some of the replies on this thread made me sick. No privates let the chips fall where they may.

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Post by old goalie85 » Tue Jun 07, 2016 9:45 am

new goalie (female) in FL boys STP. Bantam level.

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Post by old goalie85 » Thu Jun 09, 2016 7:38 pm

I was wrong. Same girl signed up for both boys and girls STP. Should add nicely to her MAPP and OS training.

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Post by zambonidriver » Thu Jun 09, 2016 7:52 pm

old goalie85 wrote:I was wrong. Same girl signed up for both boys and girls STP. Should add nicely to her MAPP and OS training.
She is trying to decide. :shock:

Docs_88
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Post by Docs_88 » Fri Jun 10, 2016 8:47 am

Short on goalies on the boys side for sure. Plenty of opportunity there.

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Post by InigoMontoya » Fri Jun 10, 2016 10:03 am

It looks like a goalie from the girls' side will be spending next week in St Cloud.

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Post by old goalie85 » Mon Jun 13, 2016 9:41 am

Yes daughter of a collage hockey coach. She is going to be a good one.

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Post by GoalieDefense » Tue Jun 14, 2016 7:23 am

old goalie85 wrote:Yes daughter of a collage hockey coach. She is going to be a good one.
OG, I think you are thinking of A.T., I believe she is a 03, it's the 01's at St. Cloud. T.H. is the goalie at St. Cloud

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Post by old goalie85 » Wed Jun 15, 2016 9:10 pm

Just found that out today. Congrats to ta Hic. Girls pool of tenders is deep.

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Post by InigoMontoya » Thu Jun 16, 2016 5:52 am

old goalie85 wrote:Just found that out today. Congrats to ta Hic. Girls pool of tenders is deep.
Deep or crowded?

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Post by old goalie85 » Thu Jun 16, 2016 7:10 pm

Board voted last night to play single A. Now what ? Two years of girls high school/and two years of Boys varsity ??

Should work out fine for her.

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Post by Docs_88 » Tue Jun 21, 2016 4:40 pm

I'm hearing that the decision is not final yet. I hope that's true.

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Post by Mavs » Tue Jun 21, 2016 5:22 pm

old goalie85 wrote:Board voted last night to play single A. Now what ? Two years of girls high school/and two years of Boys varsity ??

Should work out fine for her.
single A for what?

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Post by Docs_88 » Wed Jun 22, 2016 8:43 am

Peewee and Bantams

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Post by elliott70 » Sat Jul 23, 2016 9:47 am

ttt

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