Interesting read on players leaving
Posted: Mon Feb 03, 2014 11:40 pm
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Hmmm, I think when you are a youth player like bantam and younger I can buy into the overzealous parent argument, but by the time a kid is a senior I think they are pretty much mature enough to have their own opinions on things and their own voice on what direction they want to go. Let's face it, regardless of who the parent is, the kid is the one who put in the countless hours of work to become that good of a player, and for ALOT of these kids they are already playing a higher level of hockey, and have a higher level of knowledge than their parents do about the sport. If a kid is good enough to be a full time player in the USHL when he is a senior and that is what he wants to do I think it's probably alot more player driven than parent driven at that age. These aren't little kids anymore when they are seniors in high school they are borderline adults with brains and ideas and everything... Maybe I just recall my own experience as a youth but by the time I was a senior my parents couldn't "make me" do anything liek that if I didn't really want to do it myself, when I was younger yes, but not when I was a senior in high school. Do the parents have some input, yes, but I doubt many if any of the kids are "pushed out the door" to the USHL unless they themselves really really want to gopuckbreath wrote:Don't bother with their comments section.
I made a comment, of how so often, these actions are more parent driven than player driven.
Guess they didn't like it.
Probably even more a kid decision..my kids weren't all that great at seeing the "big picture" at that age and would not have liked playing 2nd line if they thought they were better than the kid in front of them. Things like balance and strategyalcloseshaver wrote:How about leaving a top ten team with 10 games left in the season...
Not in my experience. Yours may varyJSR wrote:Hmmm, I think when you are a youth player like bantam and younger I can buy into the overzealous parent argument, but by the time a kid is a senior I think they are pretty much mature enough to have their own opinions on things and their own voice on what direction they want to go. Let's face it, regardless of who the parent is, the kid is the one who put in the countless hours of work to become that good of a player, and for ALOT of these kids they are already playing a higher level of hockey, and have a higher level of knowledge than their parents do about the sport. If a kid is good enough to be a full time player in the USHL when he is a senior and that is what he wants to do I think it's probably alot more player driven than parent driven at that age. These aren't little kids anymore when they are seniors in high school they are borderline adults with brains and ideas and everything... Maybe I just recall my own experience as a youth but by the time I was a senior my parents couldn't "make me" do anything liek that if I didn't really want to do it myself, when I was younger yes, but not when I was a senior in high school. Do the parents have some input, yes, but I doubt many if any of the kids are "pushed out the door" to the USHL unless they themselves really really want to gopuckbreath wrote:Don't bother with their comments section.
I made a comment, of how so often, these actions are more parent driven than player driven.
Guess they didn't like it.
Great post. Very true.NextGoalWins wrote:- Top players leaving
- MH advocates and leaders kids leaving
- 25 game season compared to 50-60 games against much better competition
- Scouts taking the tournament with a grain of salt
- D1 numbers still high but pulled back from last year.
If it ain't broke don't fix it doesn't apply here. Marketing will not help in the face of the MH leaders opting out for their kids and losing many top players in the state.
Hockey is changing everywhere and while participation and total ice time per player is still king in MN and keeping MN in the limelight for advancing players out of the sheer number of participants, other states are developing more elite players then they used to with different models. MHSH provides good competition and a small number of games in a short season. The highschool elite league benefits some with more games and great competition. Competing Junior A leagues offer great competition and a longer season with well more than double the number of games.
With MN numbers and ice time still a big advantage, what changes should be considered if any?
Seth Ambroz went into the USHL as one of the most talked about 15 year olds and spent many years there.NextGoalWins wrote:- Top players leaving
- MH advocates and leaders kids leaving
- 25 game season compared to 50-60 games against much better competition
- Scouts taking the tournament with a grain of salt
- D1 numbers still high but pulled back from last year.
If it ain't broke don't fix it doesn't apply here. Marketing will not help in the face of the MH leaders opting out for their kids and losing many top players in the state.
Hockey is changing everywhere and while participation and total ice time per player is still king in MN and keeping MN in the limelight for advancing players out of the sheer number of participants, other states are developing more elite players then they used to with different models. MHSH provides good competition and a small number of games in a short season. The highschool elite league benefits some with more games and great competition. Competing Junior A leagues offer great competition and a longer season with well more than double the number of games.
With MN numbers and ice time still a big advantage, what changes should be considered if any?
That they're hypocrites ?alcloseshaver wrote:Not sure what the answer is? When the associate executive director of the MSHSL has his own kid leave early what can they say?
Or, as more often the case in such a scenario, "Son, you're the greatest hockey player ever born, destined for NHL glory. We, er you, just need to get you out of this lousy program, that has shafted you since day one, and then you wait and see !bemused wrote:Probably even more a kid decision..my kids weren't all that great at seeing the "big picture" at that age and would not have liked playing 2nd line if they thought they were better than the kid in front of them. Things like balance and strategyalcloseshaver wrote:How about leaving a top ten team with 10 games left in the season...
don't always resonate with 18 year olds..we'll see..might have been the best thing for all parties..
puckbreath wrote:Or, as more often the case in such a scenario, "Son, you're the greatest hockey player ever born, destined for NHL glory. We, er you, just need to get you out of this lousy program, that has shafted you since day one, and then you wait and see !bemused wrote:Probably even more a kid decision..my kids weren't all that great at seeing the "big picture" at that age and would not have liked playing 2nd line if they thought they were better than the kid in front of them. Things like balance and strategyalcloseshaver wrote:How about leaving a top ten team with 10 games left in the season...
don't always resonate with 18 year olds..we'll see..might have been the best thing for all parties..
We'll, er you'll, show 'em !"And hang your friends out to dry to stick it to the coach.
Signed,
Dad
I agree that giving up your Senior year with your friends is a huge and tough decision, but neither you or I know what's best for every kid. I don't think anyone is giving these kids enough credit. Cmon, these are 17 and 18 year old kids, not 3rd graders. I'm sure these kids think that part of it through. They know what it means to have their friends around them and how much they enjoy or don't enjoy High School. Some probably stay for this reason and some probably don't care, so they leave.nahc wrote:It aint all about hockey........its leaving your family and FRIENDS during your last year (or more) in highschool. I think most would agree that your Senior Year is the BEST year in school......... Plenty of examples of kids being successful after playing Juniors......... Will give only one example of a skater who stayed all 4 years....... Justin Kloos....... Finished school at home, played Juniors and is having a huge impact wtih the Gophers. Have spoken with skaters who have given up their highschool years for Juniors....... Great choice as far as hockey competition......... not so great when you see them among their friends and they see what they are missing on a daily basis.......... JMO
If you think a 17-18 year old kid thinks their parents know more than they do about what's best for them, then it's probably been a looooong time since you were that age.puckbreath wrote:Don't bother with their comments section.
I made a comment, of how so often, these actions are more parent driven than player driven.
Guess they didn't like it.
Lots of uninformed comments about how the process works, when it's the parents driving the train.Froggy Richards wrote:If you think a 17-18 year old kid thinks their parents know more than they do about what's best for them, then it's probably been a looooong time since you were that age.puckbreath wrote:Don't bother with their comments section.
I made a comment, of how so often, these actions are more parent driven than player driven.
Guess they didn't like it.
Unless you know every kid/family that has ever left early, this is nothing but spinning yarn. Other than the kid from Elk River, I haven't heard any speculation to where a kid who left early felt they were getting "screwed" over by bad coaching or bad programs holding them back. Most kids who leave early come from some of the best programs in the state. Is it not possible that the kid thinks he can get better by going to Juniors?puckbreath wrote:Lots of uninformed comments about how the process works, when it's the parents driving the train.Froggy Richards wrote:If you think a 17-18 year old kid thinks their parents know more than they do about what's best for them, then it's probably been a looooong time since you were that age.puckbreath wrote:Don't bother with their comments section.
I made a comment, of how so often, these actions are more parent driven than player driven.
Guess they didn't like it.
It doesn't take place *only* when the kid is 17-18.
These are kids (in my examples) that have been told/reinforced, since they were old enough to skate, you're the best.
You're going to be playing in the NHL.
Any bumps along the way are the result of bad coaches, bad programs holding you back/shafting you, etc.
It's never our fault, it's theirs, who/whatever is "theirs".
You are entitled to the "best", because you are the best.
etc, etc, etc.
Ad nauseam for twelve or so years, and the kid believes it too and/or thinks his parent(s) knows what they're talking about. In *this* matter.
It's not really rocket science; tell a hs age kid to clean his room, they're going to tell you to take a hike.
Tell them the above.....over and over and over, for years......they're going to agree with it more often than not.
Why no mention of the WHL? It's all about playing juniors to get ready for college. On this topic, and after last year's Pauly/Portland blow-up, it was relevant. Especially since story quoted the coach more than once.