All my responses were in reference to your posts or statements. I don't think I implied that your wife or daughter didn't tell the truth, at least to what their experience was. If that is how it read, I apologies to them.zambonidriver wrote:You know you have about as much credibility as president Nixon. I'll take what my wife and my good friend who was on the trip said over anyone of you on this board. You can take your cheap shots at me all you want but don't you accuse my wife and daughter or my friend who was on the trip of not telling the truth.NORTHWOODS HOCKEY wrote:It tells a lot about a person when they take 2nd hand info, draw concrete conclusions, blanket those conclusions over an entire group, and spread it as truth. That goes directly to credibility and character.zambonidriver wrote:More parents than kids too worried about hockey she loved the kids. Didn't appreciate the behavior of some of the parents especially when she was hanging with the kids from Sweden. Again I was not there got the story from my wife and a few others. There was a definite split heard that from many non machine people that were on the trip. Again parents not kids the trip was not just about hockey. She is still in touch with the friends she made from other countries. I resent that you say I infer these are bad kids as a teacher I know there are no bad kids. The question was asked I answered honestly. I Know a lot of those kids and they are awesome!
Your daughter included. Philosophically is where I have the issue as was so plainly stated in the article that started this discussion.
Your last statement make no sense. The article was written by someone outside of the 02 Machine team.
What philosophical differences do you have with the team, how it is coached or how the team plays? Winnie loves the team and how they play, so I am wondering where the difference is?
You love the kids, they are all great, but it is the parents? Weird how all the kids turned out great with such horrible people for parents. How many parents do you personally know on this team? How many have you actually sat down with and had a conversation with? Is it 2? Is it 4? What is the # you have to draw your opinions off of?
Hopefully you understand my comments are directed at how you took that info and used it to form "your" opinion as if fact and disparage an entire group of people.
My wife said she got along very well with your wife, had many nice conversations and so did most the parents I have talked to that went on the trip. My wife's experience was awesome and she didn't have a bad word to say about anyone on the trip. She said it was a great time, with what turned out to be a great group of people. It was much more than hockey to both my daughter and wife. It is a bummer that your wife and daughter didn't leave with the same positive feeling - about the group.
Listen, I do not care if you do not like the Made or the Machine Program. That is fine, no worries there. My experience with the program has been great. We have had 4 awesome coaches, in both the SL and on the Machine. Not one coach has been a yeller, not one coach has berated a player and not one coach treated the kids with anything but respect. Not saying that is or has been everyone's experience, but that has been ours. I don't own one piece of MM clothing or any Machine apparel and I certainly don't introduce myself as a Machine parent. My child's experience has been great, she likes and gets along great with all her teammates and it has been where she has played summer hockey - that is about it.
My experience with the parents of kids on the Machine has been equally positive and I have not met one (well maybe one) that matches what your opinions indicate or fits your general blanketing description. So I would and will continue to not only challenge your opinions of these people, but ask you how you come to your opinions.
I don't go after other programs, as I feel there are a number of very good ones. Programs that have very good people within them, offering valuable training and great experiences for young hockey players. I don't allow one parents actions, to form my opinion on an entire group of people. I don't allow one coaches antics, to form my opinion on an entire program. I certainly wouldn't blame a loss on a single player (goalie) or a specific group of 13 year old players.
When these things happen, it is just flat out wrong and the person making such statements on an open forum, should be challenged, questioned and should have facts to back up their statements. If they don't, the person posting statements shouldn't take offense when someone finds their opinion absurd.