Another guy who wants to presume he knows what's best for my kid.AimHigh wrote:muckandgrind wrote:That's your opinion and you are certainly entitiled to it, but what if your kids went to a private school outside of your local association boundaries and all your kid's friends played for a different association than the one you were forced to play for....would your opinion change then?hockeygirl2 wrote:
My own opinion is that kids in this age group are really missing out by not playing with their friends in their own association at this young age. I have heard that at Minnesota Made the squirts and mites play 30 games and 3 or so tournaments against their other 3 in house teams. You can say what you will, but the overwhelming majority of the kids playing with their associations at the squirt age are having more fun traveling and playing with friends from school then the kids who play the same 3 teams day in and day out. Right or wrong, this is what others are saying when they state what experience kids are missing out on when they don't play for their associations. I have seen it first hand, and in the end there will be little or no difference between the squirt age kids who stayed with their associations versus those who did their own thing, when they get to bantams and high school. What I think fools some parents is that because they think their child looks more advanced at this young age, that it will continue as they get older. As many of you know with older kids, it won't. The kids who are athletically talented will be there regardless of where they played growing up. The only difference is how each child got there. To each his own when it comes to that.
Muckandgrind - in that case, wouldn't the kid benefit from the many varied friendships and experiences he and his parents would develop with kids from all over, not just his school? At least that's the argument for AAA that's been advanced on the board in the past.
Now that we all know that you "get it", why don't you answer the question - why are you doing it? Starbuckmom asked that several times, respectfully, not preaching, and you still haven't answered.
Many of us, myself included, would like the answer. Judgeandjury answered it, why not you?
My son's team just played a Tier I team from outstate. One of the parents told us that they spend upward to $30k a year with fees, travel, etc., not to mention the time involved and impact on the families. The siblings in the stands did not look so thrilled that they were there. Also, they start their season in August, so no fall sports for those kids.
Why?
When Sally's mom spends exorbitant fees for piano lessons for Sally's hopes to reach Carnegie Hall or to be the next Lorie Line, or just to say she's an accomplished pianist, that doesn't effect Sally's other piano playing friends.
When the AAA proponents push Minnesota Hockey to allow Tier I during winter season, it effects all the kids playing winter hockey. The fees/time/travel involved preclude the great majority of kids in Minnesota from participation. It also takes away the opportunities and development from those kids that are good enough to play at that level but can't participate because of cost, time and travel.
What would you do if your kid didn't make the cut for the Tier I MN Team? Would you stoop so low as to have him return to Association hockey in the winter or push for more Tier I teams?
You may be tired of the preaching so-called do-gooders, but I can tell you there are just as many hockey parents who are tired of the arrogance of the parents sending the message that "my kid (and me) are better than to have to put up with association hockey (and the rest of you).
So rather than dodge the question, why not answer it. Maybe then you and your like-minded friends won't be so misunderstood.
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Why does my son like to play AAA? Answer is incredibly simple. He likes to compete, play with his friends and play on competitive teams. When my kid tells me that he looks forward to summer so he can play AAA "with his buddies" again, that tells me something. When he says that winter hockey is just something do to until summer hockey starts, that tells me something. It's not that he doesn't get along with the players on his winter team, he does. He just has more fun playing AAA. I think coaching and skill level of his teammates are the biggest factors that make it an enjoyable experience, though.
As far as your $30K figure...not sure where you got that number. I'm good friends with a guy whose son played on the 93 Fire a few years ago and he payed less than a 1/3 of that cost.
What if he didn't make a Tier I team? Answer is simple, than he doesn't. But at least he would have the opportunity to try out. He's a Bantam and will be playing HS in a couple of years anyways. But even if my kid doesn't make a team, I still think the idea of more Tier I teams in this state is long overdue and should (and probably will) happen.
You see, it's not just my kid I'm thinking about. I know there are many others like me believe that "whole over the few" argument spewed by those against Tier I is completely hypocritical when the way that Minnesota Hockey is currently set up does just the opposite: favors the few over the whole. It's the same few associations every year competiting with each other for no other reason than numbers.
You said: When the AAA proponents push Minnesota Hockey to allow Tier I during winter season, it effects all the kids playing winter hockey
HOW??? I don't see any significant impact on the rest of Minnesota Hockey if this were to happen. For arguments sake, if three Tier I teams were to form, that would be roughly 50 kids max from each brith year playing outside of community hockey. 50 kids from the ENTIRE state!!! Really, how will that impact you and everyone else?
Tier I would have less of an impact on Minnesota Hockey than Junior Hockey has on Minnesota High School Hockey.
Since you and others like to presume about me, I'm presuming that your son or daughters play for a larger well run association, thus are happy with your situation. Good for you. I'm truly happy for you...just remember that there are many who are not in your situation.