irish skater wrote:HockeyDad41 wrote:Any else have a good experience?
I'm getting to your post kind of late. My son spent two years in the MM Choice league. The first year was a very positive experience. My son was with a great group and I couldn't wait for the squirt level to start.
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It just wasn't realisitic. Sure, the younger kids were good, but they were little and just not a good representation of squirt level hockey.
My son is headed back to association this year and it's my son's idea. Good luck. There's no question, it works for some people
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Our youngest son did both last season, Choice Mites and Association hockey. There really was no comparison in the hockey programs, as Choice was FAR superior in both practice and games. Prioritizing the two "leagues" was real easy for us. He likes games much more than practice so if there was a conflict between a game and a practice we opted to let him have fun and go play the game. Doing both Choice and Association assured us that he would get enough practice and be able to have a lot of fun as well.
While there really was no comparison in quality between the two programs as far as hockey goes, there is no way the Choice League could have given him what the Association model did. Being new to our community, the Association model allowed him to make friends and play with the kids he goes to school with.
While the Choice coach did a good job with the team as a whole, improved their skills and had them playing positions very well (I am not sold on the importance of that at this age, but having coached this age group, it was impressive that he was able to do it). The problem was, the Choice coach wasn't much of a *fun* guy. My little guy didn't like going to his practices and towards the end of the year, didn't even like going to games. Moreover, my little guy seemed to be going backwards as the year went forward.
One day before a Choice games was to start my son was adamant that he wasn't going to go. When asked why, his little lip quivered and he said "Coach doesn't like me. He never tells me 'good job'. He always yells at me."
Of course, parental feathers go up, but I also know my youngest - I know he does have a few lazy bones in his body and he has istening issues. Still, I gave the coach the benefit of the doubt, but kept an eye on the situation and took some extra time to work with my little guy on the things the coach was asking of him.
Low and behold he had a good game and did get a high-five from his coach, a pat on the back and even got the "hard-hat" after the game that goes to the games hardest worker. Well, you couldn't wipe the smile off his face after that game and the "good job" he recieved from the coach that day actually meant something to him, as opposed to the 1000 "good job's" he recieved every game and practice from the dad who coached his Association team.
When the seasons ended, he was glad the Choice League was over and the hilite of his entire hockey season was his Association's Mite Jamboree - he skipped Choice games to attend the jamboree and couldn't stop talking about it for the weeks before and after.
In the spring/summer he was asked to play for a Velocity 3on3 team made up largely of his association friends and coached by his association coach and he was also asked to play for Minnesota Made's 2002 summer program. Too many scheduling conflicts meant he did one or the other. We left the choice to him and he chose Minnesota Made.
The program was largely the same as the Choice Mite League but with *fun* coaches. You could tell, however, that our little guy was done for the year. He went through the motions, lazier than ever and just didn't want to be there. Eventually he made that clear.
I was conflicted because I had paid good money for him to be there and because I don't like the idea of my kids quitting on anything. But we did let him pack it in before the 1st half ended. He said he had enough and we let him quit. (I m still conflicted about that). I asked him at that time what he wanted to do in the fall, Choice or Association, and that he could only do one. Association was his choice.
Anyways, 6 weeks later he says to me out of the blue "why can't I go to a hockey camp?" I told him that I wasn't paying for a hockey camp. That he quit hockey for the summer. "No dad", he said, "I just wanted a break. Now I want to play hockey again."
So he returned to his 2002 team when the 2nd half resumed. So far, so good. PLUS he's getting to fill in on the Velocity 3v3 team his buddies are playing on.
He says now he wants to play Choice hockey in the fall. His mother and I are on the fence with this but we are bringing him to the 2002 evals on August 10th. Honestly, I don't know if he will make the Choice League this year, as it has grown so much and there are so many quality keeners skating at Minnesota Made in his age group.
His mother and I are almost secretly wishing he doesn't make it. We are not convinced he is ready to mentally make the commitment that is required to train the way Choice programs train and we are concerned somewhat that his commitment may again fall short of a coaches expectation. He just wants to have fun and play the game. I know his outside edges are important, but I don't know that they important enough to sacrifice his love of playing. Also, his idea of hockey is chasing the puck and putting it in the net. Positional hockey to him is "boring". Asking him to stand on the blueline when when playing defense is like standing him in the corner with gum on his nose. That's not HIS idea of the game right now. That's not HIS idea of fun.
I am a big believer in the Choice League for kids who are ready for it and I know that a good majority of the kids that play in it are lucky to have it available. There are many kids at this age level who are ready for and want that instruction. Kids at this age who are seeing the game at a level higher than most their age. My son is not one of them. Maybe he will be one day. Maybe he will prefer collecting rocks. I don't know.
Right now I just want to kep things fun for him. At this age, they will do anything that is fun. Good teachers try and make learning fun. Smart moms try and make vegetables tasty. At this age, good hockey coaches need to keep hockey fun. I know who my sons Association coach will be and he's a great guy and lots of fun for the kids. Currently, the Coach that handles my sons 2002 Minnesota Made team is a perfect coach for this age. They do the drills but he's fun to be around and my son loves playing for him. I know that my son would have a good year if this guy was his winter coach, but you don't get to choose at Choice.