PuckU126 wrote:karl(east) wrote:While I think some people like to overblow Sager's role in WBL's decline, Goldy and friends certainly do have some good stuff to back their case up. And then there are some allegations that are probably true but hard to substantiate, and some that probably aren't true but could be...it's messy, and I don't want to say too much publicly, but there's no doubt it's torn that program apart, and that isn't a good thing no matter how you spin it.
You're spot on, Karl. There are many allegations and accusations being pointed at Sager; it's almost like a witch hunt. However, Gold and others do have plausible points. The thing is I do know some people that just besmirch Sager character just because and use him as a scape goat. Like what you said, it is a messy situation. I just want the program to become what it was again and bring some pride back.
karl(east) wrote:I think I have learned more about parenting (and the type of parent I wouldn't want to be) from this forum than I ever could from any book or course or whatever.

I can't even imagine some of the stories you've heard and the lessons you have seen just by being a mod on a hockey forum.
The crazies are out, Karl...

I've filled in Karl on quite a few of them (the nut jobs).
The most interesting one I had started summer before last. A hockey parent was attacking his son's coach. I PM'ed him, advising that was basically stupid, matter of time before the coach (who knows much about this forum) figures out who he is, etc.
So the guy asks me to delete his membership...I figured, sure, why not? Banned him, his email address, his IP. Problem solved, right?
Couple months later, he emails me and Mitch asking how he can get back onto the Forum.
I tell Mitch this guy won't last long, we reinstate him. He lasts two months. Goes whacko after a game because he didn't like how the assists were handed out. I ban his sorry butt.
He emails me apologizing, saying he was caught up in the heat of the moment, blah blah blah.
Sends
another email less than an hour later, turning a complete 180. (or would that be a 360 ala Linda Blair?) Tells me to "grow some hair", whatever the hell
that means, etc etc etc.
So I block his email address, ban his whole damn company (I knew where he was posting from and that he was posting from work), and my life got easier.
That's just one example.
The Youth Forum? Three years ago it was the kids causing problems on that Forum. At one point I believe Mitch was considering taking the whole forum down. Nowadays it's the parents. At least the kids could use their youth as an excuse.
It's 1 a.m. Do you guys ever sleep?
Lee