BenDangle wrote:I agree that when I was a kid I loved playing at the public rink against all levels of play.
But I gotta tell ya, dangling the in-house kids got boring after a while and getting invited to the traditional Sunday game with goalies at our rink was almost as cool as the first time I put on a varsity jersey.
My point is this, competitive people want to play against other competitive people to see where they stand.
I'm with you and my statements are not meant to be taken as absolute. It's a matter of degree and a matter of appropriate age with that degree. Too much too soon is what we get caught up in, but in my opinion it hinders development, enjoyment, and passion later.
I truly don't mean to be offensive with this statement, but it's easy for the parent of a mite or squirt, to say that their kid loves it. I can't disagree. I've just seen that passion dissipate over time when it was too big time when they were young. Many of these same kids drop out or lose passion by the time they could truly be called elite players, not to mention the physical and mental development opportunities lost by the lack of free play time taken away by too much structured activity.
It's not a great analogy, but a familiar one. If someone loves pizza they might eat it everyday if they could and it was supported and even encouraged by their parents. For MOST, at some point, pizza would begin to lose its appeal. Worse yet, this diet heavy in pizza at a young age may have a hand in causing Type 2 diabetes and other ill effects, so that the now teen or adult has to severely limit their pizza consumption. With more reasonable quantities at a young age, they may have begun to enjoy pizza even more, and explore something other than cheese on it.
Kids that aspire to be NHL players, movie stars, etc dream of the lifestyle that comes with it. Ask some NHL players how much they enjoy the travel schedules that come with the job. No put a similar travel schedule on an 8 year old. I submit that they are likely to be sick of it before they even get to the big time. How many child actors are out of acting or screwed up by the time the get to their teens. Maybe totally unrelated to kids playing a game, but not in my mind.
Just so I can tie this back to the topic of "The cost of tournaments", I'd like to have someone from YHH confirm that ALL proceeds from the squirtacular will be going to Bloomington Hockey and that all "sponsors" will be donating time and money and not taking any. If this is strictly a fundraiser for Bloomington Hockey, I'll get off my soap box regarding this tournament and turn to topics more related. I still have problems with how the parents desire to be in "big time" squirt tournaments is hurting the game, but I'll quit pointing directly at this one.