It is really a hard pill for a parent to swallow, that their son or daughter who worked so hard for so many years is now a senior on a JV swing line that sees very little ice in a varsity season. For Lake Conference teams like Tonka it is really from Christmas on that bench starts to slim down. Most of them have worked just as hard as the starters, gone to every on ice and off ice session. They gave up their other sports and much of their social life, what did it get them a view from the bench. When this happened to me growing up my dad said "fair is where you go to eat corn dogs", now I think people blame the coach more then they did back then.inthestands wrote:Is there a high school team, hockey or not, that would treat a game like the one referenced here, different than Coach Johnson did?
Are the players on this team complaining, or giving negative feedback?
From my experience, most of the teams "players" I've been involved with enjoy winning quite a lot. Especially coming into the end of the regular season.
Cant tell you how many times I heard people complain about it over the years, then I would see the 3rd line get out and suddenly the other coach would jump the 1st line trapping us in our zone until an icing, a frozen puck, or a goal. Then the complaint changes to if they played more they would be better. In truth they play against our first two lines every day, we don't see it but the coach does. The coach knows what they have more than the parents do, in truth its not anyone's fault, some kids become elite athletes some don't. If your a 3rd or 4th liner your role is to work as hard as you can in practice all week to push the kid ahead of you so they get better, maybe you will make yourself into a player who can play a regular shift or maybe not. It isn't any more fair that some kids just get pre-calc A's and others work their tails off to get by with a C, hey advanced math just isnt your thing.
Get the 3rd line parents out of the helicopter, quite complaining, and enjoy cheering for the team and not just your kid. As much as I dont like Tonka, EJ has always come off as a coach who treats his players respectfully and they seem to improve from the beginning of the season to the end. To me that is what that really counts. Now hopefully they lay an egg Wednesday.